Category: Love yourself

You’ve been waiting. And Waiting. It seems as if it will never actually happen.

You’ve been waiting. And Waiting. It seems as if it will never actually happen. You sleep, you eat, you workout and go about your daily routine.  Most days it feels as if time has simply stopped.  You wonder if the batteries in your watch have died and has the screen on your iPhone frozen…??? Every…
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The Burden In My Life

This crazy drive to be perfect is a burden on my life. There is no doubt that it dooms me to a certain amount of unhappiness. At first, I must have thought that if I try to be perfect it would be desirable,  but let’s take a deeper look at that belief: *Perfection suggests a…
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Today was hard

Today Was Hard

Is today hard?  It feels hard.  Maybe it’s just me. Maybe it’s the weather.  Or the stress of 2020, COVID, the world being completely crazy and me simply being overwhelmed with everything.  Today feels like everything is wrong and covered in ash and too much and not enough.  Today feels like everyone hates everyone else…
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person standing on hand rails with arms wide open facing the mountains and clouds

Mom, you are enough ❤️

You are enough!

magical life

I wanted a magical life!

I can think of many years (I call it a season) where a magical life wasn’t my first thought or truthfully, anything but the way I would describe my life.  Over the past several years, I’ve invested in working on me. I’ve attended seminars that interested me, I’ve worked to get different certifications that would…
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I am Too Much

There she is. . . the “too much” woman. The one who loves too hard, feels too deeply, asks too often, desires too much. There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality. Her presence is as tall as a tree, as wide as a mountain. Her…
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woman looking at sea while sitting on beach

My last kick in the gut.

Have you ever had an experience in life where you felt as if you failed? Or maybe you were in a relationship with another and feel you did everything on your part, however you were let down? Do you feel like you failed yourself, or maybe it feels more like life failed you at this…
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Dear Single Mom

Dear Single Mom, You Are Enough!

Dear Single Mom,⠀ I see you overwhelmed. I see your fear of failure.  I see you worry about the future. I see you crying in the closet after the kids are in bed because you don’t know how you are going to pay rent next month. I see you thinking you are failing at this…
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